Im worried he won't respond even to this news or think its a tactic to get back together, which i dont want because of how he dumped me etc. but i think our child deserves both parents together or not.
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If you have no way to contact him (that he is answering) I would send him an email, text or registered post letter to let him know you're pregnant. It's up to him what he chooses to do with that information but at least you would have done the best you could to notify him.
I'd be prepared to do it alone though Hun, while ideal to have both parents if he has commitment issues he may not step up to the plate with a huge thing like this1