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Because he's an ex... And for many people, breaking up is a break up.. aka.. it's over. You don't go back. You don't talk to them...
And if you wanted to hear from him you could just message, what you're currently doing if your purpose is to make him message is a game. Either don't talk for yourself, or talk and let him decide whether or not he talks back or just blocks you out.