We split a month ago. He said he didn't want to get married( I never really asked him too anyways)and he knew I wanted to get married, so he said he left because he didn't want to tie me down. I think this is a lame excuse. Does anyone else agree?
I was his first relationship.
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It's not a lame excuse, but it is poor communication. He came to this conclusion on his own, without meaningful and emotionally candid dialogue with you. Maybe the end result would have been the same. Maybe not. But he should have talked about his feelings while he was having them with you.
Trust me on that. I'm the same way. I have a feeling. I keep it to myself. I analyze it myself. I devise the logical course of action. I take action. And so rarely does it ever occur to my stupid ass to just sit down and talk about my feelings while I'm having them.1
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