.. that you were never actually in a relationship with? I sent him a respectful (not rude at all) message basically saying we should stop texting/calling each other. He text me back basically saying ok then don't text me. Few days later he texts me, apologized and says he wants us to keep seeing each other. We did. Fast forward to now, I'm not even close to satisfied with how he treats me most of the time. So I want to end things with him for good. Should I just do the fade out? Every time I try to do that I end up responding to his text because I feel so bad & think it's rude to ignore him. What should I do or say? I don't want to continue seeing him because as much as I'd want everything to be good & as much as I put in effort I see no changes on his part.
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It seems to me that you want to give this guy a chance but he can't seem to seize the opportunities to make you happy consistently. You're obviously attracted to this guy because you keep responding.
My suggestion is that you have a serious conversation with him, let him know where your head is and express to him you want to explore a different option if that's the case. I do not recommend ignoring him until you have fully expressed everything and been completely honest. It sucks but it helps.
Who knows he might step it up and give you what you need or he might understand that hey it's time to part ways.
I just don't think that holding things in are a good way to go to begin with. Just come out and tell him. I'm pretty sure he will take it hard at first but what person wouldn't?1