I've had a relationship with a girl for almost two years. It was a really hard relationship cause it was hidden from her father. We were doing well, day by day we felt our bond strenghten. I was the only one guy that she ever loved, she had insecurities from past bad relationships, and i completely crumbled her walls. She truly loved me, and i can judge it from her actions. It was a really trustful relationship from both sides. And to be honest, she was not just a girlfriend to me, she was my soulmate. I loved her under the hardest circumstances of her life. I did things for her that no one could ever do, my actions spoke louder than words. Out of nowhere, she broke up with me since 3 months. The reason why is cause she ended up being exhausted from this 'hide and seek' relationship. To tell the truth, she's a walking anxiety. At the beggining she told me to give her space and time. The bad thing is, that i acted really bad. Although she asked me to give her space, i chased her, i begged her and sometimes blamed her for lefting me to pieces. Day by day after the break up she wanted to cut contact even more. In these 3 moths of break up, when she's watching me moving on my life she gets jealous and depressed. But when i try to contact with her she rejects me, i contacted with her a few days ago, in the beggining we started fighting, but at the end she was nice and sweet to me, i asked her if she wants me to call her again sometime soon. And she said yes but not so often. Also during the phonecall she mentioned that she likes someone but she lies, trust me i know when she lies. She wanted to tease me. Anyway, i called her again after a week and she just ignored my call all the day. Why she's so mean to me? I never cheated on her or broke her heart.. I was there for her.. Im mentally tired of this situation, so now i beggin to let her go... I will move on for serious now, but in the back of my head i will wait for her. Is there any chance she'll come back?
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Just stop. The back and forth and the fights and the begging, it's over. She doesn't want to be with you, she just wants to know you're there sometimes so she can use you as an emotional crutch, and you shouldn't be begging or blaming her but the emotional damage is done. Neither of you will move on while you're talking. Realize that and see you're just dragging out the pain. The decision is made, stick with it and stop interacting, it's not helpful or healthy. Regardless of whether she feels regret or sad, she isn't saying yes to dating again is she? So accept that and move on because you aren't helping her either by jumping to her every beckon. She needs to sort herself out, you both do, by yourselves.1