So after months and months of constant fighting and emotional abuse from my boyfriend, I finally had the strength to end the relationship tonight ( he has been calling me names and treating me badly all day, I'm already depressed and don't like myself as it is) and at first I felt so good about myself for the first time in a long time but then he pulled the suicide card and how I "ruined his life" by breaking up with him. Now I'm scared and starting to feel guilty if he really does follow through with this threat. I called him a few times, no answer, texted him and nothing so I'm slowly losing my mind right now and don't know what to do..
Most Helpful Guy
I've had depression my whole life and almost killed myself many times. I'd never threaten a girl like that and it's not your problem :( please tell someone about this because you don't need this crap in your life. Usually if a person is really going to kill themselves it's secret and you don't tell people because you feel lost and don't want to have other people know. You are young and really don't need an asshole trying to depress you like this. you poor girl, this is something very screwed up and he is an asshole for doing this to you :( Break free now and tell his family or someone about this as I can tell you it takes a lot of emotional pain to commit suicide and you would not be the direct cause if he did. seriously you need a big hug right now and get rid of this asshole. take care :( <30
Most Helpful Girl
No, there is nothing for you to feel guilty over if he truly decided to take his own life. You are not responsible for his mess and what he decided to do. The best way to handle this is to get the authorities involved. He has serious major issues, and it's so bad that he has to resort to killing himself over his problems. He needs serious counseling and so do you for your sanity after dealing with emotional abuse. That relationship was not healthy to begin with. You've done all that you could have done. And leaving him was the wise decision. Because god forbid you stayed with him any longer. Your life would have been on the line as well. That is something that you need to seriously think about. But that relationship needed to end. Or it would have ended in the worse way possible.1