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You know... I think you may be screwed. I have this friend who did this swinger thing with another couple. Her husband and the other woman ended up getting along really well and he basically now ignores my friend. The unfortunate part is that it's complicated... the other guy doesn't seem to be bothered by any of this so the only one who's truly been left out is my friend. I know these types of multi-member relationships work for some people, but it seems like you have to have the right personality to make it work. I'm not sure you're such a person.