Ok long story short. My ex was a massive dick again. I've tried n tried n tried to make things work. But they just dont. And I finally give up. I cannot take the constant loveless demeaning relationship he provides.
note this didn't come easy at all. I'm fucking gutted. But for my own health and sanity I had to leave.
bad thing is we were on holidays in another state for Christmas and New Years and he hurt me so much I couldn't stand being there anymore I had to get a flight home and left him there alone.
he begged pleaded for me to stay but this was only an hour before my booked flight, but I couldn't stay. Not this time, not again. I had to be strong and go.
but I'm so worried him being all alone now with no one to be withcintact speak to. I think he will be pretty devestated and depressed. Especially on NYE etc.
i really shouldn't contact him I need to move on and him to. He needs to know I'm serious. But what if he does something stupid because of depression.
i feel so awful and worried I don't know what to do. Friends are just saying leave it he'll be fine. But what if he isn't?
what would you do?
Most Helpful Guy
"But what if he isn't?"
Then he will have reaped as he sowed.
"what would you do?"
I'd do as you have done but worry a lot less about it. The key word in your second sentence is "again". Presumably he has in the past been given the chance to reform his behaviour but did not avail himself of the opportunity (?) So now he has to face the consequences of his actions, as all adults must.
Most Helpful Girl
He's a big boy, he'll be fine. He has to take responsibilities for his actions0