When does it stop? Anyone been in a similar situation? We were together for a year and she was the first girl I fell in love with and I thought she loved me too (obviously she didn't). I hate her for it and I'm so incredibly mad at her and don't want her back or at least I don't think I do. Like I keep imagining her coming back to me and begging me to take her back and apologizing for everything and I give her hell for what she did, but then I just get sad and realize that if it did actually happen I'd probably take her back even though she was a bitch and I know I shouldn't at all because I miss her so damn much. It's such a weird feeling and I want it to stop, I don't want her back yet I do. Was wondering if anyone has experienced it before?
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It seems like you actually desire the opportunity to "get back at her"
Give it 6 months to a year and you won't care
Also start hooking up with random women. Many women have wronged me but I don't think about for more than a week because I always keep back up options
Is it scummy? Yep. But it's not as bad as being in your sort of situation0