why don't the females try to get the males? if they like the mail they would flirt than back off expecting the male to chase why?
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If a girl asks the guy she likes out, it sets up the power balance for the relationship. Normally girls like to be "dominated" and protected by guys. They like to feel small and submissive. When a girl asks a guy out, it puts HER in the dominant position and she will probably be taking the initiative and being the leader for everything in the relationship which basically dooms the relationship to failure. Sure girls like to be in control SOMETIMES but in general, they like the guy to be the dominant one.There's just something nice about being asked out and being taken to a nice place by a guy and feeling protected and special.Girls who don't want to have to initiate everything and be the one who wears the pants in a relationship for the most part just AREN'T going to ask you out. The guy has to demonstrate that he has no problem being dominant in a relationship by asking the girl out.
I am not saying that girls cannot ever ask their guys out, but for the first couple dates at least, the guy should initiate.1