Most Helpful Guy
He isn't afraid of commitment he just doesn't want to commit to you. He most likely used you as a reliable cum dumpster for 2 years, got bored of the pussy and moved on to get new pussy. A lot of men get into relationship for consistent pussy smashing.
Most Helpful Girl
U can change him. Is something he has to decide by himself. If he is scare of commitment then is maybe because. His parents didn't have a good relationship which made him think that one can't maintain a good relationship. Or he had a past relationship where he was in love, but she broke him to the point he doesn't want to go through with that again
Is hard. Not going to lie. It will take for u to be strong mentanlly and emotionally. But u could be there for him and figure out why he is scared of commitment. Yet give him space but show u are there for him. But not as a girlfriend, no u couldn't handle being his girlfriend one day and then just a girl the next. But in the end that change he has to do it alone