We had just spent the holidays together and we're out together all day, when she suddenly dumped me after dinner on Monday. She said she wasn't sure how she felt about me. This is just a couple of days after her telling me how happy she was and how I treat her better than any other guy she's dated and how excited she was to start the new year with me. She also said I was very good for her since I was able to help her take on new challenges that she wasn't confident enough to take on before, and was able to give her new experiences that she liked, but previously would have dismissed. Overall, she said our relationship was a good influence in her and she was happy to see what the future holds for us.
She has had a history of dating guys who treated her poorly, she was even engaged about 3 years ago to a guy who didn't seem to offer much, so she left him. She said once that she isn't sure why she never feels a total connection to anyone, and was going to therapy to talk about it. She has no relationship with her dad who has substance abuse issues. Not sure if that's a factor into her issues.
Given that we had only been back together a month, my online dating profiles hadn't expired yet. So after being dumped, I jumped back on to start my search for someone special.
Last night i noticed that my ex viewed my profile. Any thoughts on why she would do this? She did the same thing last time she dumped me. She has this thing where she breaks up with me but never quite leaves, we manage to run into each other, or she will check my dating profile, or will just flat out contact me. She always seems to leave just when things start going really well and the relationship is progressing.
Any thoughts on what this might mean?