Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago because he didn't like me anymore. That was the reason. I thought we were both happy in the relationship but he just said he genuinely lost feelings. It was confusing because whilst he was saying this, he was telling me how beautiful I was and that he was never going to get a girl as 'good' as me. He compliemnted me these past 2 months, saying how pretty I looked and he really liked how I was smart and a nice girl. Anyway so he says he doesn't want another relationship because he can't be bothered to deal with it, but I think he is talking to another girl who is a little bit younger, and I'm really upset about it :( I just feel like im not good enough and they both go to my school and so Im going to have to see them all the time. It hurts so much and I don't know how to stop being upset about it. I love him so much still, its been 2 months and the pain is still so real. We are meeting up to talk this week as well and do you think I should bring it up?
Most Helpful Guy
the best thing you can do is forget and forgive. I know it's hard to do your job while ex around... but I'm sure your supervisor at work expect more production to complete your daily work at time... and not a broken feelings. ( sorry for harsh words, but you've to worry about your job too... if you know what I mean.
what I'm trying to say is... forgiving your ex is related to forgiving yourself... and I know it won't change the past.. but forgiveness will give you the hope to start all over again.
don't worry, he end things not because of you, but because he couldn't handle a nice girl like you.
you still young... forget, forgive yourself and start over.
Most Helpful Girl
u THINK he's talking to a new girl or u KNOW... the worst thing u can ever do is assume. :/ if someone looses feelings for someone, u have to accept it and move on. u can't force a person to like or love you. its life hun0