Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago because he didn't like me anymore. That was the reason. I thought we were both happy in the relationship but he just said he genuinely lost feelings. It was confusing because whilst he was saying this, he was telling me how beautiful I was and that he was never going to get a girl as 'good' as me. He compliemnted me these past 2 months, saying how pretty I looked and he really liked how I was smart and a nice girl. Anyway so he says he doesn't want another relationship because he can't be bothered to deal with it, but I think he is talking to another girl who is a little bit younger, and I'm really upset about it :( I just feel like im not good enough and they both go to my school and so Im going to have to see them all the time. It hurts so much and I don't know how to stop being upset about it. I love him so much still, its been 2 months and the pain is still so real. We are meeting up to talk this week as well and do you think I should bring it up?
Most Helpful Guy
Well if it was me and you I would never do that to you but let's just think hypothetically. You should first think of her and you like what she has to offer that you didn't. I would think about did he like me for my ass my tits my looks. Because tbh why would you want a guy to look at your outter beauty anyway I look at girls for inter. I know lyier but that's what you gotta think was he really with me because he loved me inside. 2nd you should think about how your age is if he's young me being experience and seeing others guys are dumb and always want to go for the next best thing some guys want girls like they like there clothes won't wear the same pair for more then a month. But I want you to know your beautiful in every way shape and form just think about how he left you for a girl younger but in the end he has a dumb broad who just might break his heart like he broke your. But I'll ask him why did you lose feeling and if he says which makes sense "I just did" say no why did you what did I do in the beginning and the end0
Most Helpful Girl
Tell him the truth about how you feel. But I think he was saying stuff like you were pretty etc during those 2 months because he felt guilty about seeing/ having feelings for this other girl. On the plus side he does care about your feelings and what you think to a certain degree to still put the effort to say you're pretty instead of just ignoring you, however I doubt this amount will be enough and you deserve better. Someone that thinks you're pretty and wants to stick around because he wants YOU.
You said you already dont feel good enough. Trying to constantly stick around and trying to get the guy when he is off with whoever will just deepen that feeling. And even the right moment to depart will be painful and that's the risk when we decide to go into relationship. But even bad things don't last, and you will recover and guess what? if you stick with this guy you'll never get that genuine moment of "you are pretty", but now you're free and that means there hope you will find that special guy that loves your looks and you.0