Most Helpful Guy
He's not really ready to live together. The force isn't strong with this one.1
Most Helpful Girl
In my experiance girls tend to mature a lot quicker then boys so their ready for the big commitments a lot sooner. I think you need to think things through. Have a look at your relationship and decide what you want. you've already decided your gonna move out so now you need to look at your circumstances and whats to happen next. Firstly ask yourself why your the one to move out if it is technically his house then fair enough if it's rented then that's a different story also if you automatically have someplace to go that your gonna be settled in or are you having to move to your own place and start from scratch. If your place Is rented and your having to start from scratch then it's seriously unfair for you to move out and if he wants to live alone he should be the one to move and if he does own the property then he needs to be helping you as much as possible and making it as easy as he can for you those things say a lot about his character.
Secondly look at possible reasons why it's come to this. Did you chose to live together or were you forced into it by circumstances you couldn't control. I was forced into living with a partner before we were ready it destroyed our realtionship Are you arguing a lot living together. Sometimes it puts pressure on a relationship especially if one person is stuck with all the cooking and cleaning. If you guys living together was forced because of circumstances then it could well be that he wasn't ready and he's realised that and before it causes a problem you can't fix he's had to say something. If you chose to live together then he's obviously having second thoughts and I would be cautious as to his motives for living alone he made a commitment to you and Is now breaking it he's realised he wasn't ready but I would seriously wonder about his ability to comit to myself further down the line if he's gonna be changing his mind.
Thirdly look as his character. Does he treat you with respect. Does he take care of you and by that I don't mean buy you stuff but rather spend time with you make sacrifices for you be willing to do stuff for you generally care about your happiness and well being before his own and do you do the same for him.0