Usually when i have a break up with a guy I'm usually sad about it for a month tops and start dating again even if it was a long term relationship. This last guy i can't get over. We dated 2 years, had a great relationship, but it was his commitment issues that ended it (i assume, since we had a fight about moving in together etc. earlier that day). Its been 2 and a half months and i haven't heard from him since early November. I still love him so much. I've had longer relationships where i was engaged and it didn't take me this long to get over it. The pain of this has changed me for the worse. I can't sleep, concentrate at work etc. I dont know what to do or think. i can't pull myself out of this funk. I recently heard from his friend that he does regret breaking up. But if thats the case, why not contact me? he's still single too from what his friend says.
I tried going on a date recently and i had to cut it short... and i went to my car and cried. I feel pathetic. I still love him and feel so strongly connected to him. I tried contacting him earlier this month no response... it had been a month since I tried. I can't take this pain... im in therapy, but i dont think it helps much... 😔
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if it's real, it just sticks. time confirms the true feelings.
all i know is life is short, all i can do is make the most of it and fight for what we want even if it blows up in my face, but at least i know instead of being stuck in an emotional what if limbo. and from experience guys usually need more time to feel the effects of a breakup before acting on it (for example: reaching back out to the girl). good luck! i think you are in love and it's a great milestone in life to experience!1