Curious to know if anyone ever regretted ending it with someone, guy or girl? What are the reasons for regret?
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes I have the feeling of regret, when I look back on the relationship. I take all the good parts and pieces and think it wasn't that bad, sometimes miss it. But I always come back to the same conclusion, I made the write decision for myself. I try looking back at it as a whole, my mistakes, his mistakes and learn from it. I know I had valid reason to end it, in the long run I am much more happier and in a better place in my life. He held me back from my education and growing as a person. Now I'm in a healthy relationship and will be getting my degree next year. I did this in 2 years after the break up, and that relationship took 6 years from me.0
Most Helpful Guy
I have no regret ending things in the past. I have a few regrets as to how I did it in some cases.
There were some cases where I felt like I had to be callous to really drive the girl away. I probably could have been a bit more sensitive.
In particular there is this one girl whose very lasting image in my mind was of her crying while I gave her the cold shoulder. She couldn't accept my choice to break up with her. I started off as gently and as delicately as I could, but her refusal to accept made me increasingly adopt a firmer stance until I acted rather coldly towards her.
Not sure there was any other way to break up with her (she started coming over to my apartment uninvited after that), but I regret that I made her cry so much in the process.1