Anywho, We met... exchanged numbers, he did not tell me about his situation until after we spoke the next day. So that was a huge disappointment to find out, but i really respected his straightforwardness and honesty.
We tried to be friends. But i started to realize things turning more for the physical vs. friendship. He seems very sexually frustrated due to having so much time apart from his woman. he seems emotionally distant when we are together, he keeps me at arms length. He keeps insisting we are "just friends" and things like this. It is very obvious his heart is somewhere else... but in the middle of a very sexually frustrating time.
i then realized this is obviously a completely dead end relationship, where i will be the one to get hurt.
So after careful thought. I said thats it, i can't do this.
I sent him messages the next day explaining the possibility of physical part in our friendship had to be over, but i would love to be friends. I really like you as a person, but you will never be mine, so I can't put myself through this pain. I said you will find another girl who can satisfy you the way you are looking to be satisfied, lets try friendship once you find that person.
He initially said everything was good, and we spoke a little bit after. The next day i checked in and said... when do you think we can continue being friends, should i wait until you find another girl?
My question is, does he even have the right to be upset, when i am the person who will get their heart broken..
He already has a family, a spouse (things i do not have) what right does he even have to be mad, and is what i said regarding "finding another girl" Offensive? why does that bother him