My boyfriend and I dated for 8 months. We both just knew that we were right for each other and he told his family he'd found "the one." Apparently though he started having doubts after we attended his brothers wedding in October. His family loves me, and he even told them to expect us to be next. However, after a recent trip to visit his family over New Year's, I confronted him about acting differently and he said he no longer knew what he wanted with us because we both have issues to work on individually. I asked if he needed space and he said yes, but that we could still text because it would be easier. He also said he doesn't believe in taking breaks because they only cause couples to drift apart. So I have no idea what that means and we haven't actually said if we're breaking up or not. He hasn't contacted me but he still likes my statuses on social media and it still says we're in a relationship. I feel like he only said we could text to make me feel better since he's not initiating it. It seems like a break up and I have no idea what to do. Should I give him more time or just let him go? Mind you I'm 26 and he's 27, and with past breakups I've always used the no contact rule. Any advice would be appreciated.
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He basically is unsure of his feelings is what it sounds like. He wants to keep you around because chances are he is looking for other women but if that doesn't pan out he will want you to take him back.0
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