I've known this man for years. He is my brothers best friend. I've always had my eye on him ever sinc e we were teens. He's just so special and exactly my type. He's everything i want in a man. I have had some ex boyfriends but they aren't special and amazing like this guy. I really want him to leave his wife for me. We talk a lot. We're very close and we have an extreme connection. I'm so upset over the fact that he really loves her and treats her like a queen when she's just with him for his money. It's soo obvious. But , he's blinded by her blonde hair , long legs and bright blue eyes. I am a short brunette with hazel eyes. Anyways, i just really really like him, i think we "belong" as cheesy as it sounds. I've liked him for so long and i can't believe he is married now. I can't feel anything for other men. By the way , i just turned 21 , he's 32 and his wife is 24-25 not so sure. Can someone help? My close friend knows about this and how long i've been crushing over him and she says i need to let go. But, i just can't. What am i supposed to do?
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Your best friend is right. This is very unhealthy for you and is going to do nothing but ruin your dating life. It's not happening, you can't keep living in a fantasy.2