I broke up with my girlfriend and she immediately started dating a new guy. Thereafter, her family approached my family and friends to ask whether I was "ready" for marriage as is customary or traditional in my society.(parents meet---arranged type of deal). My folks asked me and I said no...cause we had just broken up...and I wasn't ready and she was seeing this other guy who she had told me earlier that she can't really stand...so I don't know whether she was just telling me that or she really meant it...also...I don't know whether she started seeing this guy to make me jealous or it was for real...but they broke up a month later...'
The break up was quite messy, in fact I had to go see her old man and tell him my side of the story...cause her folks and my family are sort of friendly...
She now ignores me, deleted me from Facebook, doesn't answer texts.
I sent her a text message yesterday just saying hey what's up...hope your good...n she didn't reply...now on her Facebook she posted stuff like when you make me cry, there's a guy who is hoping to make me laugh and etc like a long poem or something. She then went to a page why do people cheat and posted it on her page.. (yes I know I spied)
We were on and off for about a year...
What is going on here?
Why is she ignoring me?
Never had anyone so mad at me that they can't even say a simple hello or even answer texts...why is she mad? is she still into me? Even her friends are all mad at me...for something I haven't quite figured out yet...any idea what it might be?
I would like to make things right because I have missed her...but don't want to get into the stalker area...
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Remember you broke up with her so maybe she is feeling hurt by what has happened and this is her reactions. This is also why her friends are reacting the way they are to you as well. They are on her side. Yes, she may well have dated soon after as a reaction to the hurt she was feeling but rebound relationships never work out and always are short lived. It most likely meant nothing to her.
She is upset at what has happened and it is only natural for her to feel like this.0