I am not totally sure why he broke up with me but I do have some good ideas ~~ but there was no other woman. Right before the break up things were extremely close between us with him wanting more and more closeness and me agreeing to it.
Then he said he needed a break. and gave me some reasons.I said OK. A few weeks later it turned into him ending it over the phone. This is when he said he still wants to know how I am doing. I said I don't know about that.
I just let the whole thing sit until I had some kind of gut feeling tell me what to do next. Then it hit me many weeks later to call him. So I did and he was totally happy and said he still thinks about me and loves me. We talked for a very long time and left it that we would continue talking.
Now what do I do about getting us back together? I know I hurt him and he needs to know that things will be different the next time around. Do I have to wait for him to make the next contact?
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who is that girl in your profile pic? she's amazingly gorgeous
but to answer your question, you need to take things SLOWLY..it was the turtle who won the race, NOT the rabbit...remember that...
just go with the flow, people DO change, he should accept that and if he wants he can give you another chance, vise versa...you both cannot live in teh past either or conflicts could potentially come up...my recommendation is to sit back and relax, contact him maybe next week...you don't want to seem desperate here...how did you end the conversation? was it liek ok call me later? did you jsut say bye? I mean depending on what exactly happened at the end of the realtionship depends on who contacts who...he broke up with you, so call him, be friendly, yourself, remind him why he fell in love with you, but don't say you miss him every time and love him, you want him to feel like he could possibly be losing you, when in fact he's really not, you want him to realize what you are to him...which I think he alreayd knows...
yada yada yes I ramble lol...look just take thigns slowly you don't want to jump into the relatioship again and have it happen exactly as it did...hope this helps1