I know everyone is going to say I'm stupid shouldn't talk to my ex etc... I've heard it all and I agree. But I just need to know what route to go. Had sex with my ex last week and now he's distant and not really talking to me again. I know I've been played and so what I want to know is which is better. Call him out and ask him to explain why he's an asshole or just ignore him. Which one is going to bother him more? I know you'll say he doesn't care so it doesn't matter what I do. But just assuming he does care which route will make the most impact? Never trying to contact him or trying to make him explain what's going on. I want him to feel bad for what he did even if it's only for a minute
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I would leave it. If you approach him it will go one of two ways.
1. He cares and tries to excuse his behaviour and there will be a chance you get sucked back in again.
2. He won't care at all and you'll look like a desperate banshee for trying to make a big deal out of what he viewed to be nothing.
By just moving on you're keeping your dignity and not giving him anymore of your time0