one ex dated last year for about 5 months, she ghosted me for 3 months then tried to act like nothing happen. All of sudden after I went NC on her for about 7 months "she regrets letting me go".
Then em a ex I dated from 2009-2013 is messaging me saying "I'm the talk of her friends and best friends" how I was always the guy for her. This ex reconnected with me last year but she was pregnant by the dude she left me for. We became friends again through the summer, then we didn't speak for almost a year after, now she is saying "her mind is in the right place and hope we can try to work things out". I don't know though.
i don't know why all of sudden they now see how great of a guy I am. I guess the grass wasn't greener for them