I asked her out 3 months ago via text and she just said she was busy so I took that as rejection.
Then last month after class she went out with me for coffee after the last class of the year.
Now this week I've tried calling her twice, both times I got to voice mail. The first time I didn't leave a message and got no call back. The second time I left a message, told her id love to see her again, and then 2 hours later she just texts me saying hi, and commenting on a joke I made, and then that was the last I've heard of her.
Why would she text me if she doesn't want to go out with me or talk to me anymore? I'm very very tempted to call her in a couple weeks and just asking her straight up if she wants to go out with me that evening
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You know, I think you are putting too much signifigance into this. Don't get so wound up, here's what's probably going on: You're moving a little fast for her. Whether she's into you or not, she's probably thinking you're hitting on her. Unless you just want some sort of quicky affair, you really want to give her a different impression. Become friends before you become a couple. Talk to her in person more than you talk to her over electronic means. Be kind and pleasant, and, most important, show her you care. ?0