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I think it depends on whether it was a clean mutual breakup or if one of you still has feelings for the other.
if one of you still has feelings, then forget it. it will be one-sided and hurt the other person
It's definitely possible if it was a good break up. You could easily be friends if it's not to awkward and conversation is still easy.
From my life experience, usually it is the girl that wants this and it fails for two reasons. After you guys have a shit ton of fun the guy will think "oh we get a long again i'll try to get another shot" and the girl thinks because you were friends whatever happened it wasn't bad at all. In the mind of a girl, they struggle with their emotions more than a man and being friends justifies everything she did and you will see your past relationship as nothing and undermine his feelings.
I had that happen to me, an ex begged and cried for me to be in her life again, I thought I had another shot after her revolving door of assholes and she literally tried to undermine everything I did for her, even to the point she didn't tell some of her friends what happened. Can you imagine how I felt knowing the only thing I did wrong was the fact that maybe at times I was hard on her because I wanted her to be a better person but she opening talks about the one ex who mooched off her the entire relationship and was a felon, the other never got over his ex and the other who couldn't drive and did so many drugs he was legally retarded?
After all that I think the way things are currently in your relationship is fine the way it is, sure you want a relationship minus the dating part with him but you gotta look at it like someone who was in a bad accident, they survived but they ain't gonna walk again and can't do the things they used to. So don't expect a wedding invite or anything crazy
no way.. i move on... Exes are totally irrelevant... I'm out with someone else and never think of them again.
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