He left me for his ex 2 months ago why can't I just move on from this rejection?
What Guys Said 2
Your self esteem has been dealt a blow by the fact that he could return to someone who fucked him over regularly like that. You'll be able to recover once you realize that he returned to her because HE has low self esteem of his own-or he wouldn't have returned to someone he KNOWS will keep jerking him around.0
you need to just take a deep breath a couple fuck yous to him and live. go find someone that likes you for who you truly are and only than will you be happy.0
What Girls Said 1
Rejection is so painful , it can lower your self- worth. You can start to feel worthless , unwanted and unlovable. Although it's painful right now , you will move on from it if you cut all means of contact with him and focus on rebuilding your life, and becoming a stronger person. Try to concentrate on being dependent on yourself. Improve aspects of your life that drag you down , and have a negative effect on you emotionally
You stated you hate yourself for letting him treat you that way, but just try to use this opportunity to become more perceptive, and to have a stronger ability to read people. You trusted him, but your trust was misplaced... that's a flaw in his character , not yours. . The way he treated is a reflection of who he is as a person, not you
I wouldn't write him a letter. That'll just cause you prolonged pain. Burn your bridges with him , and focus on YOU. Look on the rejection as a redirection to a better life. You'd never find future happiness with him. ❤
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