My ex broke up with me, no reason was given, for six months she has messed around lied about other guys led me to believe she still loves me and then walked away after behaving really unfairly without giving things a chance - now she won't even be civil towards me and I've never done anything wrong.
Part of me wants to message her and tell her that I dont accept how she's behaved and have no interest in hearing from her again or being friends - is this unnecessary or should I just go no contact and never reply to her again?
Most Helpful Girl
No never message someone who dropped you... they deserve nothing but silence... your silence will speak volumes, trust me... you not chasing her will annoy her more than you sending a message which she will show her mates to laugh at your expense.
Take the moral high ground and be done with her
Take it from someone who begged n done what your about to do... why you think I'm givin u advice? Yeah laughed at and humiliated to Fk with her, see urself as the one that got away and you can do better than her, make it ur mission go to gym n improve urself n upgrade- only way is up now0
Most Helpful Guy
Do not contact her. If she calls, don't take them. Do not return them unless it's a message you need to know (Getting stuff back, you have kids or pets in the game, etc). If you do talk, make it brief. Don't be nasty, but don't give her much of your time... and remember... always remember what this was like, because it's not likely to change (if she tries to get back with you).
She did you wrong, but that happens. Just be glad you found out what she was like before it was too late. She doesn't care enough to be sorry. Not for a while, at least (some people do grow, but it's rare). So don't care enough to give her that real estate in your head.
I had a girl cheat on me. I never called her back to tell her off - she's not worth the head space. Sometimes you're the pigeon, sometimes you're the statue. Do I think she's sorry? Maybe deep down she is... but that's on her soul. Do I deserve an apology? You better believe it. But sometimes you just don't get one... and that is what it is.
I would recommend leaving it in the past and trying to move on. It says more about you than her.