I noticed I have been much happier ever since I stopped falling in love and looking to get accepted by girls in anyway. I let go of girls because these days they are shallow and ignorant and even close minded. Some of them are also very rude and senseless. I have felt better in terms of mood and self-esteem and improved overall in some things in life ever since I let go. I haven't felt suicidal from insecurities given to me indirectly by them. Do you guys agree with me? Do y'all thing that letting go of women can boost happiness for some of you guys?
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Sometimes it does. And it is a period when you also have more energy to do many more creative things.
However, you cannot impose that as a rule.
As you say, the point is to be happy. In times, you can certainly be happy being alone. But if you meet a girl who makes you really happy, don't let it go. Even if it turn out bad, it won't kill you and you are gonna have more good memories to keep.
In other words, just don't sweat it. Flirting is a natural behaviour and so it should remain.2