Just in general, when should you keep trying to get over someone and when should you try and get them back?
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Of course they're are a million variables to any one situation but If after you've decompressed and had time to logically think about a break up and you still feel that you want to give it a shot, I say go for it! Don't know if the other person is gonna feel the same way but what's important is that you put your feelings first and gave it a shot. Because you are what's important always! If you tried and it was met with a disappointing negative response well then you have your answer, move on. You are going to have hard times getting over relationships, and believe me I've been there, just always know that if you truly give it a 100% and it doesn't work out then know your better off in the long run! Love isn't something you feel its something you do. And if the person your with doesn't want it, do yourself a favor and save it for someone who does. I think I strayed from your question...
I guess long answer short. Ask yourself if this person makes you a better you. That they are a person that sets a bar high and keeps you working hard for a better life together. Not to be confused with someone who you make your life, no no ... no bueno... stop that right now! View your relationship from outside yourself and list the positives and negatives. If you find more negatives than positives than that's when you know you should get over them.1