Most Helpful Guy
I think you are being a little harsh on the guy.. most guys do that and if his friends are involved he's clearly trying to fit in, its actually bad in itself that you went through his phone to read these messages. You shouldn't have broken up over that.. you should have confronted him and explained that you find it uncomfortable.. if it continued then you have a problem and something worth splitting up over
Most Helpful Girl
no second chances. He is clearly interested in other girls-that is a HUGE red flag. HUGE. He wants you because he just wants to have someone by his side-not romantically but selfishly. You will always be 2nd to him. 5 days after you discovered this will not stop him from talking to other girls. He is not ready for a relationship because a relationship is not talking to other girls sexually. This is one of the worst things you can do in a relationship. Find someone who will focus on only you and not anyone else.