My ex dumped me 2 months ago and I've been struggling a fair bit moving on and letting go. I really want to just move on and not care what he does, thinks, says, or anything. I've started improving myself like going to the gym, eating healthier, becoming friends with new people. But I still find myself hung up on him. I know that I am not so deep in love in with him anymore because I don't find myself tempted to speak with him or even try to get him back.
I do miss him, and I wish I didn't. And I do wish he would regret letting me go.
So I just wanted to know, can you tell me your breakup experience and how you moved on and got your happy ending that you deserved?
Most Helpful Guy
I've never had a girlfriend but I've had many crushes on girls who werent interested. It usually takes me a minimum of 3 months to start to feel better. When i actively tried to get over one of my crushes, i deleted all of my texts/facebook messages from her, stopped contacting her, removed snapchat and instagram, stopped going on facebook as much and avoided her until i was over her. I tried to distract myself as much as possible by going to the gym and drawing a lot more. Also another thing is i avoided listening to sad music. It takes time. I didn't even realize i had moved on from her until i had a new crush. Now when i see this girl i feel nothing for her. Its strange how these things effect us.
Most Helpful Girl
I had this same problem when my ex broke up with me. And tbh, I didn't completely get over him until I met someone new that I could fall in love with. The fact that you said you're not so deep in love with him anymore is a really great sign. Just keep reminding yourself you're better off without him and focus on the future. Focus and what it's going to be like when you do meet someone new and they treat you a million times better. Everyday, it will get a little easier.