So my boyfriend and I are in limbo, prob broken up. I put my online profile up again and I was found by a guy who had messaged me before, but never asked me on a date. We messaged a lot and he even remembered my birthday! He contacted me and we started a back and forth, this time there is a date set. Am I wrong for doing this? I feel guilty, but my bf/ex whatever he is, is giving me a cold shoulder and even told me not to wait. I have been a mess for the last week and I may be reaching a point of not caring anymore. Thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know.. but you're moving too fast.
i'm not saying.. you have to suffer and lock yourself in a dark room to feel bad about what happened, but does this new relationship or dating site or that guy fulfill your needs?
what I'm trying to say is... you're emotionally open to any new relationship, whether bad or good, and this will be a mistake... i'm afraid you'll pay for it later if you didn't realize the consequences.
give yourself time to know what your priorities are, and what you want.
just don't throw yourself for luck... luck as the sea, and beautiful for those who know swimming.
Most Helpful Girl
If that's the case why not end it with you boyfriend now?0