He didn't do anything wrong. In fact, he was an awesome boyfriend. However, being together for 2 years, I feel so stagnant. We spend holidays seperately all the time, he's only met my parent once or twice!! He literally only met my best friend recently for one night. I love him so much and I know he has just as much feelings for me as I have for him. He always talks about our future together and stuff like that, but I just don't see it anymore.
I broke up with him 2-3 days ago on the phone. He hasn't called me back since. I feel like I really hurt his feelings bad... but this has been on my mind since the holidays when I just realized how we have been together this long without any progression. Im not talking about marriage or anything like that. Im 22 and he's 24. I just want to see the relationship progress a little. Was this a fair reason to break up?
Most Helpful Guy
try to tell him what you just told us... if you feel there is no chance at a single change then yeah... it is alright to leave him0
Most Helpful Girl
If you want a change, then you co
should discuss it with him. If you two truly believe that what you have is truly love (sorry for cheesiness), then you shouldn't hold back what you think. What you tell us, tell him. What you're scared of saying, you shouldn't be. There needs to be an understanding: he doesn't need to agree with everything, he just needs to understand your part, express his own and be able to come to a mutual agreement with you.0