I feel like a side chick to my kids dad?
What Guys Said 1
You basically are
What Girls Said 2
There are so many things wrong with this.
>"I feel like the side chick"... that's because you are
>"broke up 4 years ago... feel like he's using me for sex"... he is and you're equally wrong for having sex with someone in a relationship.
>"and if he's stupid enough to do that with the kids involved"... you're an equal part of that. This should read "if we are stupid enough..."
The verdict: You guys are both playing games and you know who is going to end up hurt? The kids. They already have had to deal with the stress of you 2 separating but now they are having to deal with you 2 playing house in this fantasy land where y'all can be a family and he can go back home to his girlfriend. You need to either get together, or get apart, set some boundaries, grow a spine, and do what is best for your kids.
That brutal honesty is meant in the kindest way possible.
Hun he can't be that serious not to introduce her but. might also be as he knows what he's doing will confuse the kids more. he keeps coming back as he knows your an option. So sleeping with him won't help you
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