Long story short we broke up because we didn't have time for each other. I brought up the breakup but changed my mind (wanted to work through it) but he didn't. We agreed that we would try to be friends in the future.
I went NC for 2 months but I finally contacted him and asked if he'd want to hang out soon. He said he really appreciated me but seeing me would be "too much". What does this mean? I see it one of three ways:
1.) He still has feelings or thinks feelings may resurface if we meet (odd, because he was the one who really finalized the breakup)
2.) He thinks I still have feelings for him and is afraid I may try to pursue him (odd, because I haven't contacted him after the breakup until now)
3.) He just doesn't care to see me/have me as a friend (I think this is unlikely, as he is the kind of person to just not pick up the phone if he didn't care)
Thanks for any advice!
- Still has feelingsVote A
- Thinks I still have feelingsVote B
- Doesn't careVote C