Ok, I'm taking my ex out for a belated Valentines date tomorrow, we've been split for 3-1/2 months, we've had sex a couple times, and it's incredible, but... she doesn't wannna commit.
So, she's moved a few things out, but if she wanted to, she could've had ten guys in five trucks empty the house in an hour.
She says that my desire to be with her is pushing her away, tomorrow could be another night of epic ex-sex, but I want it all back. I want her love back. So, what if we got warmed up, and I told her I couldn't, because I want so much more from her? What if I told her that I loved her, and couldn't use her in this way anymore?
What do you ladies think? Men's comments are welcomed too, but there's more to our story, and walking away isn't an option.
This is a lifetime with this girl, I'm 44 and I picked her up from high school for a date. We've had others input lives, but we've always been back before...
How can I expedite this ladies, she's angry and hurt, but I don't think she's done.
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Well how did it go? My advice is still you don't need her so don't act that way. Don't act as if you desire her unless she start stripping you naked and then you tear it up and leave!! Make her come back to you and if she doesn't sorry because chasing her will not work either. I know the feeling of an ex wanting you back it it starts to look desperate and very unattractive. This is a sick game and if you want to play have to be the bad boy.0