I've dated this guy for four months, I met him in July, we met a couple time after. In August we talked and decided to go in a committed relationship. I did not like him at first, but the way he thinks and he loves me, I fell for him. when I first met him he was in a rush to get married, I wasn't ready, I told him I need 5 years before I make any big decision. he used to live in a different state then he moved in my state for a new Job and because I am down here. His parents are some Christian protestant people, they advised him to never go in a relationship with a women that has a kid. his mother had a child before married his father. I didn't get my daughter out of red luck, my daughter's father is involved and paying child support for her care. any way, he said each time he talked to his family he imagined us not together, before he used to say, I am matured I can talk to my family, they will have to accept and respect his choice. so! since then I felt some disconnection before I didn't feel like spending 5 years with someone waiting for hi parents to break the relationship, while I could find someone else. But he made me love him, I couldn't choose.
anyway, I was supposed to do an assignment, to lie to someone make them believe in it, then record their reaction and behaviors, after that tell them the truth. I told him I cheated on him with his best friend and my best friend too. he started to believe, I told him its a lie, I show him the descriptions of the assignment,. he still got mad and left, I sent him textes and apologized, I promised him I would never cheat on him before, which I would never do that. the next morning he sent a text to me saying "to never contact him again, and have a great life." "I told him, you as well."
it hurts because I loved him, I didn't want go in a relationship, he forced me now here's the result.
I showed him the truth!. or is it just is it just an excuse of him to break up, for his parents reasons or he find someone else?
Most Helpful Guy
That is not something you do to someone you love. That kind of "assignment" should have been done with someone whose deep trust in you would not have been so brutally hurt. You got what you deserved. Hopefully you have learned a lesson.2
Most Helpful Girl
"out of red luck"
but i digress. your "joke" was not funny and you probably knew that going into it; all you can do at this point is cut your losses and move on.1