how do u handle this pain or how did some of u handle it
Most Helpful Guy
Just keep moving. While it wasn't a dump there is a girl I talked too who seemed so interested, we click great and our witty humor is amazing. She's very attractive looking and sweet and we were going out for dinner and a movie... and she's with someone, she let me know as to not lead me on... it hurts bad. Worst than most because I've never even been on a real date with a girl or had a girlfriend yet and I thought this was finally it, we still got along great even after I told her my interest and stuff which makes it even harder because of How well we get along... I hope I find another like her who's available and returns the interest.,,, I got high standards and she met all of them.
Most Helpful Girl
Stop all communication with the ex is #1.
It's in your best interest and by blocking them on fb and insta etc will help you in the long run, it will just be painful if you can see what they're up to all the time. You need to take time to heal, that first week, cry it out, get upset and mourn the relationship, give yourself that time to be sad but then the second week you pick yourself up out of that mind state and heal yourself, go out with friends or family, do something creative, make extra effort at work, pamper yourself, whatever it takes to make you feel happy. Keep that up and the pain will begin to fade over time.