I sat there one day and said "this guy is an ass, get rid of him." So one day, he came over and I told him our expectations aren't in alignment and I'm starting to lose interest. DO YOU KNOW THIS MAN STARTING CRYING? That threw me all the way off. He said he doesn't know what to do anymore and we split amicably.
It's been almost 30 days of no contact and he hasn't tried to get me back, nor have I. Nonetheless, it's really hard to get over him even though we only dated for 3 months! I'm always sad, thinking why isn't he calling and whether he simply replaced me without a second thought. I've drowned myself in volunteer and professional work, hanging out, and watching breakup videos on YouTube, to no avail.
Someone please, help me gain some perspective. What did I do wrong? Why isn't he trying to work it out?
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You didn't do anything wrong you need to understand that. Sometimes you date assholes someone and you catch feelings for them. You don't need to worry about him and why He isn't trying if he wanted to make things work he wouldn't be an assholes. I think you like the idea of seeing if he will text you or call you. It's a casino affect you're trying to get the big prize by u keep getting nothing. You're hoping each time you win. Watch Nur on YouTube and infinite waters
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