So, it's been three months now since my ex and I broke up. He left me for someone else, and I find myself still grieving over it. I'm over him, as in I would never want to be romantically with him -- or at all in that case. But what I'm not over is that he chose her and not me..."I like her because she's just like you" he said to me... but he already had me.
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Everyone deals with heartbreak differently and one thing we have to remind ourselves that we are still a gorgeous and amazing person.
It's difficult losing a person period but losing someone to someone else is a hit to the self esteem but from my personal experience it's best to face the pain with honesty and understanding than using bitterness and other hatred methods.
I'll explain why, let's say you go on a hook up spree as a form of revenge , it just makes you stoop to his level and it doesn't solve anything, Oppose to just facing the pain and learning to come to terms that it happened and learning to love yourself again.
When you learn to love yourself again you become more than comfortable, you become a better person and truly begin to move on and away from poisonous people like them0