Im 19 years & 227lbs (almost 20) & a Culinary major. I broke up w/ my boyfriend of almost a year about 2 mths ago. About a little over a mth after that I started receiving text from men I use 2 know. For ex: an old high school crush who keeps sending me dick pics, an old class mate (b/f I transferred schools), & the other men who I while mention later on. My old class mate saying oh that he likes me a lot back then & that he expressed that through teasing & didn't know I was leaving (neither did I wasn't my choice). He also has a kid & a bm & another kid on the way (I dont think he knows that I know though). here's whats up w/ the 2 other guys. I've only known Guy B for a mth & we only had 1 conversation & the next day he says he likes me a lot. Wtf? It was 1 convo about my sob story of a break up. Guy J is my good friend of almost a yr. I really haven't been on a date in half a yr. Me & my bf's dates consisted of me, him & his grandma. No Im not picky or hard 2 please but damn. He didn't have much money but I was ok w/ that; at least he tried. But most of the time I would have 2 come c him instead of it being 50/50. Guy J is being recruited by the Air Force so I told him we should hang b/f he goes. So we saw Assians Creed on New Year's Eve. I didn't expect him 2 pay 4 my ticket especially since a had my own money. We got our tickets early & walked around. It was wonderful, we laughed & talked. After the movie was over we went back 2 his place 2 watch another movie & have pizza. I convinced him 2 let me pay bc he paid 4 my ticket. We watched the movie had pizza & got 2 cuddle. he's not the first guy/person I've cuddled my boyfriend knows I'm a cuddler. It wasn't a date but kind of it felt like 1. Like how a date should feel like afterwards. A few days ago he said he loves me. I told him we need 2 talk in person. So we met up talked & we ended up kissing. I still feel a sense of loyalty 2 my ex. He said I could use him as a rebound but I said no bc he deserved 2 b treated better than that.
Why am I suddenly attracting men?
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Maybe you're a fetish. There are guys who view overweight girls as a fetish.0
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