Most Helpful Girl
"It was because of her depression, and her fear of hurting me by pushing me away." The way I interpreted that, was that she sacrificed the realtionship to spare you any misfortunes. She seemed to be getting too attached to you and broke it off before she couldn't let go.
I really don't understand why people are telling you to give her space. It seems to me that she wants to know, to be assured, that despite her depression/mood swings, you're going to be by her side with open arms to help her cope. You know, depressed people constantly feel lonely, unwanted, a burden, lost, sad. Of course what they need is a support system. and what better support system than love.
I think you need to let her know that you love her. That her depression could never push you away from her. That it hurts you to know that the person you love is struggling and you can't be there for them. Because honestly, to me.. especially at a low point in my life, someone I love keeping a distance from me is like a big fuck you to the face. I know you're backing off with good intentions. But still.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, give her space. When I mean space. I mean space. don't reach out to her at all. give her at least two weeks. I know it's going to hurt waiting two weeks but if you really want her, be patient. she will come back within two weeks if not then reach out in two weeks.