Back ground: when I met him he was unbeknownst to me he was seeing someone else but ended that shortly after we met and I do know he has not contacted her since.
I asked him to give me this weekend to think about it so I'm just hoping for some thoughts/ advice... I'm just so confused and heart broken.
Most Helpful Guy
Oh yea baby... look at my phone anytime
*turns to the side and pulls out the trap phone*
lol... i dont know girl... as long as you can find out that nothing was DONE... you should let it go.
I dont give a crap (and you shouldn't too) about words flying back and forth... as long as nothing was DONE... its all good.
Most Helpful Girl
He broke your trust. There's also the element of he knew what he was doing was wrong, hence the secret cover me app. What's to say he won't do something he knows is wrong in the future and just not tell you. And when you find out apologize and say never again? Also, he only said he was done after you found out. What's to say he hasn't found another hidden app and told her, I didn't mean what I said. For me, I wouldn't be able to trust him, especially given that history of seeing someone else shortly before he met you. But the question isn't whether or not I would trust him, the question is, do you trust him? If you don't, what would it take for you to trust him again, is it something that the two of you can fix?