I can't handle seeing him flirt everywhere on social media. I blocked him but I can still see his tweets and I have zero self control. Everytime I look my heart breaks a little more. I can't take this. He's on his way to a party and I'm just at home staring st my phone. I can't go to this party because it's his friends and I am not welcome. So now I just get to watch him over snap and I can't take it. I don't follow him but i still follow his friends. And people text me "did you see what your ex is doing" ugh I can't take this. He wasn't even that good to me. So why I am so miserable?
Most Helpful Guy
You can't get over him because you haven't blocked him from everywhere you could have. You still want to be able to keep an eye on him so you make excuses like ''I can still see his tweets''
Guess what? i can't see my ex girlfriend tweets because I don't care, don't want to. i don't even know if she uses twitter or anything else. Do you know why? Because i genuinely do not care.0
Most Helpful Girl
Perhaps, you still had hope/faith that you two would get back together? Personally, I'm dealing with a lot myself. In the last nine months, I have had three relationships that ended and one of the three ended just tonight.
It's very hurtful, when you tell so much to someone.
Time and distraction are key. Let time heal the pain, and distraction get you past it.
If you need to cry, do it. If it's crying out of anger scream, punch a pillow or go for a walk. It won't ever be easy. It's going to hurt badly until you reach the state of accepting that of which is done and over now. Do your best to start a new hobby.
It will help immensely.
♡ Keep your head up, you will get through this. ♡0