I can't handle seeing him flirt everywhere on social media. I blocked him but I can still see his tweets and I have zero self control. Everytime I look my heart breaks a little more. I can't take this. He's on his way to a party and I'm just at home staring st my phone. I can't go to this party because it's his friends and I am not welcome. So now I just get to watch him over snap and I can't take it. I don't follow him but i still follow his friends. And people text me "did you see what your ex is doing" ugh I can't take this. He wasn't even that good to me. So why I am so miserable?
Most Helpful Guy
Grow up, put the phone down and do something with your life. Self pity over a guy who don't even care about you is self destruction. Tons stuff to do. You rather pick up your phone and do nothing. Go in your closet and threw everything on the floor and pick up again, go draw characters that you like I. A cartoon, challenge yourself to be better than you were before. Go for a job. Something. Make a name for yourself and don't give up.0
Most Helpful Girl
Perhaps, you still had hope/faith that you two would get back together? Personally, I'm dealing with a lot myself. In the last nine months, I have had three relationships that ended and one of the three ended just tonight.
It's very hurtful, when you tell so much to someone.
Time and distraction are key. Let time heal the pain, and distraction get you past it.
If you need to cry, do it. If it's crying out of anger scream, punch a pillow or go for a walk. It won't ever be easy. It's going to hurt badly until you reach the state of accepting that of which is done and over now. Do your best to start a new hobby.
It will help immensely.
♡ Keep your head up, you will get through this. ♡0