Ok, so my long distance ex of about a year ago keeps trying to come back in my life... So, short historyof what happened. We met about a year ago in person, she went back home, we got back in contact a year later, became friends for a while and then started dating for about 1 1/2 months more or less. Just not to get into too much detail, I found out she cheated on with another guy but denied it constantly and blocked me on Facebook. They went out for about a month, she broke up with him "for pressuring her to have sex" or something like that and came back to me just wanting to be "friends" and I stupidly accepted. Anyway, it went good for a couple of weeks, but then she started acted distant and argumntative again and even stood me up when had the chance to meet in person again. I eventually found out she started seeing the guy again and told her to lose my number... I also found out that not too long afterwards, she married the guy. So anyway, after all that, about a month ago, almost a year later, she tried texting me something vague, just my name with a question mark at the. I ignored it and blocked her number. Then just yesterday, she finally unblocked me from Facebook and sent me a message apologizing for what she did. I decided to respond with a thank you and wishing her the best since she did take the time to apologize, but then she started trying to ask me how I've been and stuff. I just responded shortly and ended the conversation saying I was busy. She responded with a "oh, ok. I understand" and so far, nothing else... Why is she trying to suck me back in her life? From what I know, it seems like she's even still married to the guy and she even acknowledged that I didn't want anything to do with her in her apology (Even tho part of me would still like her back in my life but I now know she's not a good person from all this)...
Why does she keep trying to come back in my life?
I gained weight after being cheated on, I feel so insecure, what can I do? Why are "divorces" so prevalent these days? What do you think is the most common reason for divorce? Have you ever been ghosted instead of getting broken up with? What's the longest it took you to get over someone? Do you ever worry that you will never find love again after a breakup?
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