Guys does a little jealousy ever work when trying to affect your ex?
What Guys Said 2
You're still inadvertently playing mind games. If you're even entertaining the thought of whether such a picture will make him jealous, you're playing the game.
It's not the actions that make you play mind games. It's the thinking behind it. If you're asking these types of questions, you're playing mind games.
And it's not a good or mature strategy to winning anyone back. Your most effective strategy to win anyone back is to counter-intuitively move on, to stop thinking about how every little action is going to affect such a person.
>> But now I'm not thinking about how he would react. But I am curious if it will bother him.
These two statements blatantly contradict each other in ways that you should develop some self-awareness about.
>> I would like it bother him a little if I'm being honest.
That honesty is a good first step. Try to become even more honest with yourself and try to have some dignity.
As for the jealousy side, maybe yes it will work if I'm honest. When I saw one of my exes I cared about with a new guy and kissed him in front of me at a party, I did get jealous.. or at the very least I finally realized it was over between us. I blocked her off and never saw her again after that. In retrospect I am glad I saw that because it was a key part of moving on and never thinking about her again.
What Girls Said 1
Here is my opinion, stop trying to make your ex jealous, nothing good comes from that. Have patience. I also recommend to leave another guy out of it. You can win your ex again, by trying to understand from both view points, these things just take time, and evaluation. Do you want your ex back?
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