and I'm having trouble dealing. We were both each others' first serious relationship. He was amazing in the beginning. But as soon as we broke up (peacefully), he turned into a huge jerk. It was such a change from what I knew him to be. He got mean, gave really low blows, and even told other guys that might be interested in me not to mess with me because I wouldn't have sex with him. WHY do I care that he's dating this new girl now? It just happened so fast, now she's all over his Facebook pics/profile. More so than I ever was. I guess I'm jealous that I invested so much in him and he's showing all of this love and affection to some girl he just met. He didn't make me as obvious on his Facebook.
Maybe he's trying to make me jealous. But I don't know how to deal. I don't know what he's doing. Please help.
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I recognize this, yeah that's just a bitchmove. And the only thing you can do is try to get over him. These things he's been doing will hurt you, but it will also make you get over him faster. And whenever the time's there, you will see that it's for the good of you that you aren't with him anymore. Because he isn't the guy he used to be.
If he's trying to make you jealous, he shouldn't be mean to you. All I can read, he's just being a jerk. Go do more stuff with friends and family and try to get over him. It's a hard road, but it's a necessary one as well. Acceptance and moving on is the chapter you're in now and it's always hard, especially when he was your first serious relationship.
And if he told other guys you won't have sex with them and that makes them stay away from you, at least you know what that guy wanted and it hadn't got a thing to do with you personally.
Brief: He's just being an ass and is trying to hurt you to make himself feel better. Try to think to different things and do more things with friends & family than paying him attention, it's all in your mind...0