Most Helpful Girl
- peachblossomluckGuru mho 18%
I used to be just like that cat and let them know it was them, that I'd rather be alone with my sanity somewhat intact without their disruption. They can never handle the truth or leave me alone for long. So then I got wise and pretended there was someone else. That's the only way you can get them to accept you don't want them is for them to think they've been replaced rather than to accept you'd rather die old and alone than be in their company one more second.
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Most Helpful Guy
- Iraqveteran6668 Xper mho 8%
No. I think the world would be a better world if we were all more honest with each other no matter how brutal that is. I broke up with one ex and when she asked why I just told her that it was her not me that she was not a good prospect for marraige or kids as she runs up huge debts, doesn't attend church, has no savings, drinks and parties too much, lives with her parents, can't cook, won't clean, doesn't know how to do laundry, is half assing college, can't sew, can't knit, is lazy, needs help with basic tasks and doesn't want kids until 35 to concentrate on a career. That we had fun and good times but it can't work out and if she wants a great guy like me then she'd have to shape up and get her. Of course she was offended and hurt and her feminist friends were in a blind rage about it and soon told me so lol but I met her a few months ago with her husband and kid telling that she eventually got her shit together after dropping out of college. Now she cooks, cleans, bakes, knits, sews the lot and of course I'm happy for her.
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Thanks for MHO and digging my honesty:)