I've been really into this girl and we've been talking a lot lately. We've been practically dating for a while now. It would be a lot more serious if we weren't so far apart.
She's just moved on after being engaged. It's been more than a year now but their relationship was close to 7 years long.
Now every now and then she will casually mention him. Nothing too serious. It doesn't bother me or anything. I'm fairly confident about myself. It's just I'm worried there might be more that meets the eye here.
Am I reading into this too much?
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I think you're reading too much into it. That was 7 years of her life. What is she supposed to do? Act like those years never were and completely omit them from herself? Have you thought how hard it would be for you to erase 7 years of your life and never once mention anything that ever happened? I'd say it's her just being open, honest, and telling you about her life. That's a good sign. If it's obsessive, super negative, any of those would be red flags. Otherwise... it's life. She's with you, she's opening up to you. Give her a safe place to do that and see where it goes?0