I mean I've got a new boyfriend, and he's really nice and treats me better than my ex did. I just don't understand why I keep having this niggling feeling, because he's got a new girlfriend? And I kinda keep thinking, why did he say he wasn't ready for a relationship with me, yet he's with her… he obviously just didn't like me. I hate him. I like my new guy a lot.
Most Helpful Guy
Your ex took your virginity and for him to do that you must have had strong feelings for him. You probably wanted an longer relationship but the fact that it was short and you feel that he lied to you is what's bothering you.
You have unanswered questions to why he wants a relationship with this new girl yet he said he doesn't want one with you. You probably feel betrayed by him.
Just count yourself lucky you are not with someone who does not respect you. Your ex is not worth wasting your time and thoughts over. Move on and be happy with your new boyfriend. The past is the past regardless of how he mistreated you.
Just wish your ex all the best in his new relationship and you need to stop searching for answers to why questions.
Most Helpful Girl
i think it's just faint jealousy... i've gone through this. you get over it trust me you realize he isn't important. just make your boyfriend your #1 priority and FORGET HIM. intimacy with your current boyfriend usually helps ahaha